Why The 'Welcome To Your Tape' Memes And Tweets From 13 Reasons Why Are HORRIFIC

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Can you not?

At some point in time between the extinction of dinosaurs and the Paleolithic era, some random human decided that mental illness was not real.

OK.

So, that's not a fact, however, it does feel like those who suffer from any form of mental illness have been fighting to be taken seriously for just about ... forever.

We've only now begun to feel like maybe our voices are being heard.

Maybe.

The mental health resources available now for those that struggle are bursting at the seams compared to when I was a teenager (back in the Paleolithic era) and yet, there's still something wrong with the system.

Stigma: a mark of disgrace or infamy; a stain or reproach, as on one's reputation.

The stigma surrounding mental health is so real it's almost palpable. 

I'm almost 35-years-old and still fear the shame of admitting my disorders.

 

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Think about it: When you hear someone has cancer or some other dreadful disease, your first reaction may be to comfort them, yes?

But when you hear someone has been diagnosed with ... say, depression or anxiety, your first instinct may be to think (or say if you're really bold) that they're just being dramatic.

Which brings me to my next point.

Have you seen 13 Reasons Why on Netflix? It's based off the book of the same name by Jay Asher and is described by Wikipedia as such:

The show revolves around a student who kills herself after a series of culminating failures, brought on by select individuals within their school. 

Hannah Baker, who dies by suicide, creates 7 cassette tapes with each side dedicated to one person that influenced her decision to end her life; hence the title 13 Reasons Why.

At the beginning of each tape, Hannah starts off with the following statement: Welcome to your tape.

And as with everything today on the internet, it has become a meme. 

A dangerous meme.

 

 

 

 

 

Even Netflix got in on the action with their tweet when competitor Hulu threw shade at the company:

If you don't see why this is all very problematic, don't worry. I'm here to explain it:

Meme: an amusing or interesting item (such as a captioned picture or video) or genre of items that is spread widely online especially through social media.

Suicide is not amusing.

Suicide is not a joke.

Suicide should NOT be a meme.

Am I taking this too seriously?

How serious is death? I'd think that's pretty severe and permanent, no?

By creating and spreading this meme of "Welcome to your tape," you're not only perpetuating and glorifying the idea of suicide, but you're making those that suffer from suicidal ideation feel worthless.

How could I possibly know that?

Because I suffer from it.

When I see others taking the show, that I was so happy about for opening up a much-needed dialogue, and joking about it ... I just can't tell you how painful that is.

 

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What about survivors of suicide? The ones left behind? Do you think they would laugh at these memes?

Probably NOT.

Things are so easily shareable; with a single click of an icon, a meme or joke or GoFundMe is shared among your followers and friends.

That could be an amazing tool if used right, but when it's used to spread the stigma surrounding mental issues, it is just. so. wrong. 

If we can think of social media as a superhero, I think we can all see a bit clearer what it's truly meant for.

If social media's super power is sharing information across all platforms, wouldn't you want to use that power for good?

No one wants to be the villain. The villain never wins.

Yet, we share things that could cause pain without even thinking twice.

Let's all just stop for a second and realize that the actual one with power is yourself, not Facebook or Twitter.

YOU have the power to make things better.

YOU have the power to stop spreading hate.

YOU have the power to spread the love.

Use your power wisely.

 

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